A family office is a private structure designed to manage, protect, and transfer the wealth of a single family across generations. It brings together the governance, the advisory relationships, the values framework, and the estate architecture that keeps everything aligned — so your wealth serves your family rather than the other way around. If you have built significant wealth, have children who will one day inherit it, and want to make sure the structure around your family is worthy of what you have built — you likely need one. Most families at this level do not have one yet. That is exactly the gap we exist to fill.
A financial advisor manages your investments. A wealth manager manages your assets. The Family Office Foundry builds the structure that sits above all of that — the governance, the values framework, the advisory circle, and the legacy plan that holds everything together across generations. We are not here to replace your CPA, your attorney, or your investment advisor. We are here to be the one person who sees the whole picture — with no product to sell and no agenda except your family's flourishing.
We work in three stages. The Assay is a private conversation — no pitch, no agenda — where we take time to understand your wealth, your values, your family, and what you want to pass down. The Forge is where we design and build the family office structure around you — the governance framework, the advisory circle, the estate and legacy architecture. The Temper is where we stay — walking alongside you as the structure is tested and refined through the seasons of life, business transitions, and generational handoffs. Most families tell us the Assay alone is worth the conversation.
It means exactly what it says. Real counsel cannot be given at scale. When we take on a family, we are fully in — for the long road, through every season. We do not have a team of associates handling the relationship while a senior partner shows up twice a year. You work with Neal directly. That commitment requires limiting how many families we serve at any given time. When capacity is available, it is offered first through referral from within our existing client relationships.
The families we work with have typically built significant wealth — most are in the $10M to $100M+ range — and are at a moment in life where the questions have shifted from "how do I build more" to "how do I make sure what I built holds." They are usually in their mid-forties to mid-fifties, have children moving into adulthood, and feel the weight of decisions that no one around them can fully help them carry. If that describes where you are — the conversation is worth having.
Yes — and in our experience, the most important conversations happen when both spouses are in the room. We have found that in most families, one spouse has been carrying more of the financial decision-making weight while the other has felt less heard or less informed. Part of what we do is make sure both voices are at the table — because a family office that only reflects one partner's values is not built on a strong enough foundation. We work with families, not just the primary earner.
It is not too early — it is exactly the right time. The families who navigate generational wealth transfer most successfully are the ones who built the structure and the values framework before the children were ready to inherit. A teenage child who grows up understanding what the family office is, why it exists, and what values guide it is a fundamentally different heir than one who receives wealth without context. The earlier the structure is built, the more time it has to shape the next generation alongside the assets.
With absolute discretion. What happens in our client relationships stays there. We do not discuss our clients with other clients, reference their situations in speaking engagements or marketing materials, or share information with any third party without explicit consent. Thirty years of this work has taught me that the families who trust us most do so because they have never once had reason to question whether that trust was warranted. We intend to keep it that way.
You do not — not yet. Trust is earned, not declared. What I can tell you is that in thirty years of this work, seventeen of my clients passed away. Every single one had a complete plan in place. Every family received exactly what was intended. Not one asset was lost. Not one family was left unprepared. That is the standard I hold myself to — not because it is good for business, but because these are real families with real stakes. The best answer to your question is the conversation itself. If after we talk you do not feel that this is someone you can trust — you should not move forward. That is the right standard to hold us to.
Almost exclusively through introduction. A client refers a peer. A trusted advisor — a CPA, an attorney, a pastor, a fellow entrepreneur — makes an introduction. Occasionally someone reads something we have written or hears Neal speak and reaches out directly. We do not advertise. We do not have a sales team. The nature of this work means that the relationship begins before the first meeting — through the person who thought you should know about us.
Nothing is sold and nothing is decided. The first conversation is exactly that — a conversation. Neal will ask about your family, your business, your values, and what is keeping you up at night. You will ask whatever you need to ask. At the end of it, you will know whether this feels like the relationship you have been looking for. If it does — we take the next step together. If it does not — that is equally fine. The goal of the first conversation is clarity, not commitment.
We do not publish fees on the website — not because we are hiding anything, but because the right structure for every family is different, and pricing before understanding is backwards. What we can tell you is that the families we work with have found the investment to be among the most meaningful they have made — not because of what it costs, but because of what it protects. We discuss fees openly and specifically in the first conversation once we understand what the work actually looks like for your family.
Download the Family Office Readiness Guide. It is a short, honest document that helps entrepreneurial families understand where they are in the process — what structure they already have in place, where the gaps are, and what questions they should be asking right now. There is no pitch inside it. Just the right questions. If after reading it the conversation feels timely — we would be glad to have it.